Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Dating Advice: Don't Sabotage Attraction by Obsessing Over Physical Insecurities

We all have insecurities or things about ourselves which we’re not completely crazy about. In fact, if you think you’re perfect, then there’s probably something more wrong with you than the rest of us who do have our hang-ups. Maybe you think your nose is too big or your lips are two small; don’t draw attention to the parts of you that you think are imperfect. You will not only look insecure, but you’re liable to point out things that no one else can see but you—we are all our worst critics anyway.

Such comments are also downers and can make someone else feel uncomfortable. I mean, are you expecting your date to agree that you need to lose the five pounds you've been obsessing over?

-Estelle
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Estelle is the president/owner of Estelle Matchmaking, LLC a boutique matchmaking service for selective singles in the NYC area (including Westchester and Fairfield Counties) and South Florida.

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