Perhaps, you find yourself on a date with a real “looker,” that doesn't mean you have to ogle. Compliment your date politely and keep from staring at him or her as if you’ve never seen someone so breathtaking; even if you haven’t, show restraint. No one wants to be looked at as if they’re a piece of meat. Look at them genuinely and respectfully, and use complimentary adjectives the same way. Telling someone they’re “hot,” isn’t the best way to win them over – be far more eloquent and creative in your word choice: beautiful, elegant, sophisticated, etc.
-Estelle
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Estelle is the president/owner of Estelle Matchmaking, LLC a boutique matchmaking service for selective singles in the NYC area (including Westchester and Fairfield Counties) and South Florida.
