Dating Advice: Don't Spill All Your Secrets

Sometimes you find yourself with someone who’s prying, but you have to remain strong. No matter what the person on the other side of the table might be saying, don’t be talked into spilling your secrets—you have months later to do such things. Some people can be convincing, but you need to convince yourself that some things are worth the wait and your deepest, darkest secrets are on that list.

-Estelle
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Estelle is the president/owner of Estelle Matchmaking, LLC a boutique matchmaking service for selective singles in the NYC area (including Westchester and Fairfield Counties) and South Florida

Never Ask Too Many Personal Questions When First Dating

Do not pry. Although it may be going well and you’re feeling comfortable, keep in mind that the first few dates are not the place to go looking for skeletons in someone’s closet. We all have our secrets and it’s when we’ve truly reached a level of trust that we let someone into our secret world. Asking your date personal questions that they may not be ready to answer is not only invasive, but also rude.

-Estelle
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Estelle is the president/owner of Estelle Matchmaking, LLC a boutique matchmaking service for selective singles in the NYC area (including Westchester and Fairfield Counties) and South Florida.